February has crept upon us and it's
that time of year when commercialism tells us to show our loved ones
how much we care. That's great if there is a significant other in
your life, but if not, are you going to spend time disheartened and
depressed at being alone?
Out of everyone you'll ever meet,
you are the only one who's guaranteed to be with you from the
start to the end – so why not love yourself?
This Valentines Day (which is falling
on a weekend), why not book a date with yourself? You don't have to
spend a fortune unless you want to, but it could help you feel
happier. If you do have an other half, maybe schedule one of the below in on another day, or think about including them.
Ideas on how to have a great Valentines
Day:
- Take yourself off to your favourite haunt for a few hours – whether it's shopping, a favourite location outside, or a coffee shop with your favourite book
- Consider doing a few hours charity work, it'll take your mind off things and it's always great to know you're helping someone else
- Book yourself in for a therapy – while I'm a little biased about this one, it is still an option to consider!
- Pop to a shop and buy some luxurious bubbles, then head home and enjoy a lovely luxurious bath
- Buy yourself some beautiful flowers and when you look at them - smile!
- Treat yourself to an afternoon of a small box of chocolates, a favourite drink & a favourite film
- Try a random act of kindness – it may give you a warm fuzzy feeling & someone else will be happier as well
- See some family or friends whose company you enjoy. Ensure there's laughter and not too much serious talk
- Head to the cinema to see a film you want to watch. In the dark no one will see you on your own and if you go to a daytime viewing you're less likely to see lots of couples!
- Head off to a local place of interest: museums, outdoor places of interest or local historic parks can often be free. Otherwise you could check out what's on at the theatre or a local arts venue.
Whatever you find yourself doing,
remember to show yourself you care – you are special and it's
important you take time to acknowledge it!
