But what happens if its all a bit last minute??
This week I had a client arrive more stressed than usual, as they had had to pick up a little one who was now ill and in tow. The child had a runny nose and was looking a bit hot but didn't look like they needed to be in bed. The adult hadn't known what to do because it was 1/4 hour before the appointment, knew it was too late for cancellation and couldn't get the child to anyone else. So, they arrived sheepishly, apologizing and explaining the situation.
The thing is, this is Life, and this is what happens occasionally. It's unexpected stuff that we didn't plan. So, what did we do? We armed the child with a few interesting things, left the door slightly open and I reassured the adult they could relax and I would deal with any questions.
It's not ideal, it's not perfect relaxation, but they were surprised by how much they were able to relax. Their little one did come in occasionally and we had a few whispers dealing with issues but it was fine. At the end, the child joined in the massage of the feet (after checking the client didn't have ticklish feet!) and everyone was happy. After the session I used essential oils and cleaner to make sure we didn't risk passing an infection onto anyone else. Job done and no drama needed.
I know single parents may not get childcare and I realise the horror when you get a call telling you to come and pick up a child. The thing is, if they're not contagious, needing medical attention or their bed then it's fine. At our centre there are some days which are busier than others and it may not be great if there's a child in reception, but if there is, there is.
If you're a single parent wanting a session and the only way you can do it is by bringing your child, then let us know. We have a reception and older children are welcome to come and sit while you have your session. If you have younger children, we'll work with you, because if it's the best you can manage at the moment then your best is enough and we're here to help. We'll make sure we can get you in when your child can walk in and out of the room to check you're OK and to ask questions. We'll make sure we have a few things to keep them distracted for a short while.Because, especially when you have children, it's important you look after you.
