As a massage therapist I've heard of many therapists who won't treat men, or who have decided to give up the profession completely because of the lewd texts and calls that can be received.
I do treat men. I work with the men who have back problems, I see the men who want relaxation because it helps keep their work stress in check. I book sessions with men who have shoulder stiffness, headaches, feet issues or constipation problems. Because men are people too and also need to look after themselves.
But as a massage therapist I do occasionally get those calls and texts. I can guarantee that you won't get an appointment by sending me text messages with no name asking me for a relaxation full body massage, and I don't respond well to telling me you're a 50year old Scottish guy. Send me a text like this and you will get a professional, curt response telling you that your therapist doesn't care about your nationality, they care about the issues and problems you're presenting for the session. I also don't answer my phone at 9, 10 or 11pm on a Friday or Saturday night and you probably wouldn't want me to, as I'll be in bed (my children get me up early and I really don't take kindly to being woken from my comatose slumber). I may offer appointments in the evening but my sessions are by appointment only and my Friday nights are booking into next year. If you are one of the men who wants that type of 'massage' go to a massage parlour, don't contact a professional massage therapist.
If you're a genuine man who needs help, who wants a supportive massage then don't let the thought of being considered a 'dodgy guy' put you off. Look for a professional massage therapist, there are many out there and they are absolutely fine with treating men - you're part of our business. A professional massage therapist is someone who's going to listen to what you need and provide a massage to support you, focusing on any muscular issues, just as we do without a second thought for women.
